Are you looking for more support, advice and love during these unprecedented times?

Are you scared, overwhelmed, and confused?
Wondering if you should give up your dreams for a gentle birth?
Let alone your hopes for a pleasurable one?

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This is no doubt an anxious time.


I am here to help you address your fears, connect to your body & baby, and learn what science says is the safest way to birth your baby with power and pleasure! Yes, even now in these uncertain, scary times of a pandemic we can choose a joyous birth. We can practice releasing our stress and preparing for our goals. From the comfort and safety of your home you will learn and deepen your understanding of pregnancy and birth– and become positively prepared for all that birth has to offer. I am here for you in this uncertain times. I want you to feel brave and confident to birth with power instead of fear.

positive birth education

Learn the essentials for a healthy labor and birth with our 5 module condensed birth course which includes the role of pleasure, birth hormones and comfort measures.

In addition, we will be gifting you Orgasmic Birth documentary and book! A $32 value!

Listening to inspiring stories in our documentary and book along with our unique guidance will prepare you to move through labor with respect and love. Even in these uncertain times.

This is a scary time and also an amazing time as we prepare to welcome your baby! We feel more than ever we all need to give what we can to support each other.
The usual cost of this course including all the bonus material is $825 however for this limited time we are offering it to you for only $247.

We know you can do the math on what a savings that is. It is our pleasure to give you the support you need as you prepare for the birth of your beautiful baby.

You will receive our easy to enjoy content through videos, workbooks, weekly emails and personal support.

You will be positively prepared for birth with the information, reassurance and facts you need to understand all your options and dive deep into the ohhhhh so good tips that transform pain to pleasure!

what new moms are saying

"The course was by far the best investment we made in our preparation of the birth of our first baby, as it left us not only informed but inspired, empowered and open to all possibilities. And now that our baby daughter is here, I have my own powerful home birth story to share!"
Asta Rudzinskaite
“This course is a must for any woman who wants to be part of the new paradigm of birth that transforms pain and fear into power and pleasure. I found Debra Pascali-Bonaro’s guidance invaluable as I prepared for the birth of my daughter.”
Kate Northrup
Author of Money: A Love Story

You long to have a safe birth & a healthy baby

I believe you deserve to feel connected to your body, your baby and your partner. I want  you to feel nurtured, respected and fully informed.

Science confirms that there are safer and healthier ways to birth our babies gently. Whether you would like a natural birth or will need technology – we will guide you to learn all of your options to create a safe, satisfying birth in any setting.

If you want to be informed, inspired, and empowered to choose your place of birth, care-provider and understand the options that are right for you and your baby – Pain to Power is right for you!

what's included

get started

Positively Prepare for YOUR birth
Get started today with one of our fun online, interactive childbirth courses!

Ask the right questions 

You’ll receive a one year membership, access to our award winning film and book “Orgasmic Birth” and personal email support with me, your virtual doula.

You will know how to find the answers to all of the options you could consider in birth.

meet your teacher

Hi, I'm Debra Pascali-Bonaro

I’ve been teaching childbirth education for over 30 years in over 40 countries.

I train thousands of parents, doulas, midwives, doctors and nurses in the safest and most pleasurable ways to support a healthy, empowering birth experience. All over the world the highly medicalized birth model is creating challenges that have gone too far and can put you at risk instead of keeping you safe. Change is happening but not quick enough.  

Don’t leave your birth to chance.

I will give you access to the information you will need to understand your choices and decide what is best for you and your baby.

My film, “Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret” was ground-breaking over 10 years ago, and to this day expectant parents around the world are discovering that birth can be a pleasurable experience.

I’ve combined my own knowledge & experience, comfort techniques I’ve collected from around the world, the latest science and reputable resources and added my favorite videos and tips from the top best guest experts.

what experts are saying

"Debra’s life work is to reframe today’s widespread belief that birth is frightening, dangerous and painful. In everything she says and does, Debra models the joy, pleasure and empowerment that is available in birth. Let her show you how to prepare yourselves for the rewards of giving birth."
Penny Simkin, PT
Author, Doula, Childbirth Educator, Birth Counselor
"Debra is going to provide you with all the information you need to create a birth plan that will give you the intimate, controlled, safe birth experience you desire! She will teach you the latest evidenced based safe birth practices to arm you with the knowledge to choose how and with whom you give birth. I really believe in Debra’s path to pleasurable birth in her Pain to Power online experience. I believe for you that, more than becoming educated about childbirth, you will absorb amazing ways to develop comfort and strength in yourself for a day that you will NEVER forget!"
Gail Tully, Midwife
Spinning Babies

*Spinning Babies Films are included in our Comprehensive Bliss Program

course outline

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Our course begins with an opportunity for you and your partner to be inspired by our award-winning documentary “Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret”,  the film will challenge and guide you to look at your preconceived ideas and fears around childbirth. You will see the emotional, spiritual, and physical heights attainable through a gentle loving model of birth as seven women and their partners share their most intimate moments. A joyous, sensuous and revolutionary experience. You will never think about birth the same way!

This module we will be giving you tools to prepare your body and mind for the birth of your baby. You will look at the language of birth and go deeper to identify how cultural fears and programming can shape your perceptions of birth, and how they can then lead to your experience of birth. We will then explore ways to re-frame your perceptions creating new language of birth. We will also discuss your birth hormones,  the process of birth and the importance of finding positions that create comfort and ease for you and your baby in early labor.

The dance of labor begins with inspiring birth videos, rebozo technique, Lamaze tips for a safe and healthy birth,  information on continuous labor support, including how a doula can assist you and your partner during labor.

Real birth stories and videos (from around the world) will inspire you to consider how you hope to  weave the physical, emotional, spiritual and sexual aspects of yourself into childbirth.  Begin preparing your birth bag and tool kit for comfort as our exercises provide you and your partner opportunities for discussion and reflect on the birth you desire.

This week you  will learn all sorts of tools and tips for comfort in labor! We will share many of our best kept secrets for comfort including:  touch,  rebozo,  acupressure in labor, visualization, dance,  song/music, and hydrotherapy.

This module, you will be ready to go deeper into comfort techniques in labor with an emphasis on pleasure. We will look closely at the role of the “love hormone” and its role in childbirth and in our sexuality. We will discuss the importance of communication and healing, guide you to explore with your partner how he/she can help you release your birth hormones, and ways to create the safety and privacy you desire to release your hormones and feel loved in labor.

Online childbirth classes

I will guide you and your partner with valuable information you can relate to.

Your birth is approaching and I want you to know all the options you have.

Birth still can be an empowering transition into parenthood.

The sooner you get started preparing your birth plan, the sooner you will be able to ensure all the decisions you make will be supported by those caring for you.

Don’t wait until the last minute and realize you wish you’d learned more…